Hello sweet friend!
Experts are wonderful. So learn from them. But, BE YOUR OWN EXPERT FOR YOUR LIFE.
Do it by the book? No! There are millions of books! There’s no right way or one path. It’s your way.
Try new ways. Learning is in living. Knowing without trying is useless. Wisdom comes from getting it wrong sometimes. What worked for one may not work for you. It doesn’t mean they're wrong or you’re wrong or that you did it wrong. It just means ‘their’ way doesn’t work for you.
Find a path that works for you. Change paths. Or clean it up. Path meaning diet, relationships, habits, communication style, career, hobbies, workouts etc.
This is about becoming an expert on you! Who should know you best? YOU.
In everything you do, learn about yourself. Your preferences, what works, what doesn’t. Invest in becoming an expert on you and stay open to changing your mind as you grow. It comes in stages. Layer upon layer, experience upon experience.
Feel free to share what has worked for you. We need everyone. It might help someone, it might not. And don’t be hurt if they don’t do what you recommend. Why? Because they’re on their own path! We're born to figure out how to live our best life. And my best may not be what you think is best. No problem!
When we can allow everyone to just be as they are and where they are we could reduce judgement, comparison and insecurity quite quickly.
If you are here, let me tell you, I think you are doing splendidly. 🤗
All my love,
K 💛
Let me know if you can relate! I’d love to hear from you!
