How men can help women feel more loved
Hey there sweet pea!
This is a list I made for men who want a loving relationship and are happy to put in effort for the woman he loves and wants to keep. It’s not everything, but it’s a great start.
Ladies - forward this to your man if you like these, or send him a list of your own.
Men - careful, if you do these things, she may not be able to get enough of you!
Tell her you love her body. We can’t hear this enough. We’ve worked our whole lives trying to impress you with our looks.
Tell her she’s beautiful (often). Look in her eyes for this one and make her see what you see. (Do this while making love and she’ll never want for anyone but you).
When she does something with her friends/family ask how it went and how they are doing.
When she walks into the room, delight in her. Show her that you’re happy she’s there (smile, acknowledge her, get off the couch and greet her with a hug).
Find out what makes her feel most loved. Then douse her with it all the time. Be aware - her feelings can (and probably will) change over time.
Commit to her.
Do what you’ll say you’ll do.
Always date her - take her out, buy her flowers, compliment her, touch her, gas up her car or wash it, spend quality time with her, talk, listen.
Play with her - cards, dance, board games, puzzles, great conversations, massage, create a playlist, go for a walk, comedy show. Do stuff together!
Keep yourself clean. Bonus for being active and caring for your health.
Share your dreams and fears with her. Then she can be your biggest fan and support you in your vision.
Tell her what you need from her.
Make sex fun and a place she wants to be. Get to know her body and take your time. Tease her. Slow down. Relax her. Adore her. (Ask her what kind of sex she dreams about).
Compliment her character. Tell her what you dig about her. She can’t read your mind.
